How (Not) to Manage Time 如何 打發 (白花) 時 間

In a household with 3 children, 2 parents and 2 sets of in-laws who live nearby -all of whom I really love and enjoy- time management becomes really important. I've always been one to be scared and awed by over organizers. You know who you are, the types with the big leather organizers whose daily schedule is written out the week before down to 15 minute increments. I have one friend who is so organized (with 6 children, 2 seemingly full-time jobs I guess she has to be) she makes makes me tired just listening to her day.

In a large household, things can either be chaotic or they can work very well, saving everyone time. One thing I have learned is that each and every person contributes in the way they can best. For me, that means cleaning dishes, cooking, teaching, buying the milk, helping with homework and maintaining this blog. Even our little one who learned to walk not long ago, enjoys running diapers over to the trashcan! ...wonder how long that will last?

Are you one of those who has to dial your cell phone to find out which toy box it is in? If you answered yes, then you need this next point.

Keep a little bit of physical private space. When there are quite a few sets of hands around it is important to have some place where I can throw things and they won't be moved. Otherwise, so much time can be wasted just looking for everyday household items that were moved rearranged, ground into the floor, etc..